I can hardly believe it. The time has gone by so quickly, and God has already been so faithful and taught me many things.
Some of the things I've learned have been difficult, and some of them have been joyous, and I'd like to share them with you. Without further ado, here are some lessons I've learned thus far:
1. Waking up in time to eat before class is a good idea if you don't want people to look at you in a funny way because of the noises your stomach is making (yep, definitely learned this the hard way)
2. Showering to music blasting is SO much fun!
3. Dorm bathrooms aren't that bad, as long as you ignore the resident spiders :)
4. Always take your keys with you when you walk out of your *locked* room, unless you want to be locked out for a few hours.
5. If you're running late for class, never take the elevator-ALWAYS use the stairs!
7. It's a lot of fun to Skype and call family back home - do it often
8. It's easy to get sucked into "college culture" and have that be your entire world-get off campus a bit and explore the rest of the world :) (still trying to learn how to do this in a balanced way! :)
9. When you're having a bad day and you feel the lowest, the Lord is so near and present. You are never alone. In our weakness, He is made strong.
10. It's OK to be embarrassed, make mistakes, and ask upperclassmen lots of questions-they know a lot more than us freshmen do!
11. Study hard and well, but remember to sacrifice time to spend with people. People are so important.
12. Don't be afraid to be vulnerable and open up to people - it's amazing to let another human being peer into your soul, and to peer into theirs as well :)
13. MAKE time to spend alone with the Lord-He will feed you from His Word, and this is so important!! He wants you to depend on Him and ask Him what He thinks. It's so, so easy to get caught up in the day-to-day survival at college, and it's easy to lose sight of the big picture. Never forget His faithfulness, His promises, and His desire to shape you and mold you more in His likeness
14. Don't make studies or relationships into idols- this sounds plain and simple, but I've had a hard time keeping the Lord as my complete focus. So many people and things pull for your attention- continue to be still, and know that He is God. Take time to breath, not study, and just be in awe of our Glorious God. Get some perspective-it helps a lot
15. Don't get too comfortable- be open to the opportunities the Lord will provide to stretch you and push you even more out of your comfort zone, even though it hurts and it's really hard sometimes. He's always beside you, and won't ever desert you-when you can't go on a step further, He will carry you. On my hardest days, He always comforts me with such thoughts
As you can tell, I have much more to learn, but this I know: God is good, He is faithful, He wants the best for us, and He passionately desires to be our focus. Lord God, I am amazed by You.
I love you Kooks! You are learning so much! God is good!
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Addison
Sometimes, God needs you to fall apart, to break down, to have the tears roll helplessly down your face so you can turn to him. Turn towards comfort, away from the evil that would tempt you to null the pain. Leave behind the old and run with blind faith towards the new, the promises of new hope, new dreams, new life. Sometimes I have to close my eyes even while the tears break past tightly shut lids, and run blindly towards a God I understand or I know I will continue to completely fall apart and be back in a cycle of deprecating insanity. I need my God to hold me together when everything else tears at me to shatter apart